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My Dad was getting on my nerves today.
First he made comments about my brother wearing makeup, which always puts me on edge, because my brother has made it clear that no matter what my parents say he's going to wear his makeup when he wants to. So let the guy be! If he wants to wear make-up let him wear it in peace.
Then we were driving out to my Aunt's for breakfast. My cousin Missy, the one who's pregnant was in from Pittsburg so despite the fact that I'd just gotten off work and was tired I rode with them (trust me I was too tried to drive myself) and anyway I was reading a book. My dad had expressed his concern over the book. And okay, yeah it was about sex...but this is the same guy that let me and my brother borrow any of his and Mom's books on sex. I mean he handed me a book that covered fetishes without blinking so why are you going to be weird about me checking a collections of essays on sex from the college library? So he told me to put the book down, cause this was family time and we should talk. Then they weren't talking to I had to facilitate the coverstation. I was all ugh I'm tired.
Then he lectured me today...twice. I'm trying to have a conversations with him and he just starts lecturing out of no where. I was gritting my teeth and keeping my comments to myself. I just wish he'd realize that I'm twenty-one, not a kid and that lecturing me was okay when I was a kid, but now it's not something I want and it makes me want to tune him out.
Just me venting...was much needed.
First he made comments about my brother wearing makeup, which always puts me on edge, because my brother has made it clear that no matter what my parents say he's going to wear his makeup when he wants to. So let the guy be! If he wants to wear make-up let him wear it in peace.
Then we were driving out to my Aunt's for breakfast. My cousin Missy, the one who's pregnant was in from Pittsburg so despite the fact that I'd just gotten off work and was tired I rode with them (trust me I was too tried to drive myself) and anyway I was reading a book. My dad had expressed his concern over the book. And okay, yeah it was about sex...but this is the same guy that let me and my brother borrow any of his and Mom's books on sex. I mean he handed me a book that covered fetishes without blinking so why are you going to be weird about me checking a collections of essays on sex from the college library? So he told me to put the book down, cause this was family time and we should talk. Then they weren't talking to I had to facilitate the coverstation. I was all ugh I'm tired.
Then he lectured me today...twice. I'm trying to have a conversations with him and he just starts lecturing out of no where. I was gritting my teeth and keeping my comments to myself. I just wish he'd realize that I'm twenty-one, not a kid and that lecturing me was okay when I was a kid, but now it's not something I want and it makes me want to tune him out.
Just me venting...was much needed.