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and my Aunt pisses me off.
Today my grandma said she wasn't going to put her birdfeeder out in the am and take it down in the pm. I help with this at night and maybe my not having helped in the last few days contributed to this idea, but still it worries me. She saids that it's just 'too much' on her.
This is not a decline that I want to see and when I offered to take over completely she rejected that too. I asked if was a monetary issue and she said no.
My Aunt is in from Conn and this makes me wonder if she had a hand in it. A few years ago when my parents wanted to buy my grandma a small individualized green house for her birthday because one of her lifelong dreams was to own a greenhouse my aunt went to my grandma and convinced her of how she shouldn't have it. Now this. I have to wonder if my Aunt realized that by changing my grandma's routine, getting her to give up some of those things she loves she's contributing to making her eventually not do anything, to decline and to eventually die. The longer my grandma keeps doing what she loves, keeps striving to move and do the longer she will live.
Today my grandma said she wasn't going to put her birdfeeder out in the am and take it down in the pm. I help with this at night and maybe my not having helped in the last few days contributed to this idea, but still it worries me. She saids that it's just 'too much' on her.
This is not a decline that I want to see and when I offered to take over completely she rejected that too. I asked if was a monetary issue and she said no.
My Aunt is in from Conn and this makes me wonder if she had a hand in it. A few years ago when my parents wanted to buy my grandma a small individualized green house for her birthday because one of her lifelong dreams was to own a greenhouse my aunt went to my grandma and convinced her of how she shouldn't have it. Now this. I have to wonder if my Aunt realized that by changing my grandma's routine, getting her to give up some of those things she loves she's contributing to making her eventually not do anything, to decline and to eventually die. The longer my grandma keeps doing what she loves, keeps striving to move and do the longer she will live.
