and for one moment I thought I'd over reacted.

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So I thought maybe I over reacted earlier. Talked to my grandma, and she said that taking the bird feeder down would be a winter thing cause she's not going out there in the snow.So I said, "Okay, we'll put it back out in the spring" while already planning in my head when I could take care of it for the winter. We'll see what happens.

Then I'm thinking maybe my Aunt didn't have anything to do with this decision, big maybe.

We started talking about family and this Aunt has always only interacted with my mom's side of the family when she has had to. I asked her if she wanted an address of a cousin since she was getting my sister-in-law's address (my brother's overseas at the moment) and she said she wasn't related to my cousin. She told me that the only ones she is related to is her brother and his kids. I pointed out she's related to my mom. She told me 'Only by law.'

I think a lot of the respect I still had for my aunt went flying out the door today. I'm still not even sure what to say to her.