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I have this co-worker that when someone is working restoratvie she expects them to drop their job and come help her with hers. The last time I worked with her I spent the morning helping her and barely got to help the other two aides on the hall and then insisted on doing my work after lunch. I also go pushed into doing more than my restrictions allow and went home extremely sore.
I was working the hall with her yesterday. I was running late into work and when I got in I immediantly went to help get patients up I knew were within my restirctions to be able to assist. I checked in with the aide who's patient I was getting up who is also a friend and she warned me that this co-worker had already decide which residents I'd be taking care of for her that day. While I was getting supplies together to give a shower this co-woker came up to me and demanded to know 'What are you doing for me today?' and when I pointed out that I was getting a shower and that I wasn't planning on helping C1 this morning because they don't need help in the morning she got angry and pointed out that she was on C3. I aplogized and told her I'd see what needed done on her set when I finished the shower I was about to do. She told me which two people she wanted me to get up for her and started walking away. I pointed out, in a teasing tone, that it would be nice of her to ask me to help her instead of demand it. She told me not to bother coming to help her and when I finished the shower and checked in to see if she was okay she told me not to bother that she was done with me that day. Later she loudly complained in the middle of the dining room in front of patients that no one wants to help one another. When I went to try and push one of her residents to the dining room she told me not to 'because I wouldn't want you to strain yourself' and was just genereally grouchy and mean whenever I was around...for the entire shift.
Today she wouldn't even say hi to me, just glared at me and walked away.
I don't even know what to do. It feels petty and childish to me, but I wasn't asking for much. I went for a friendly somewhat teasing tone and just pointed out something that needed to be said because I'm not the only one who feels she does this to them.
I was working the hall with her yesterday. I was running late into work and when I got in I immediantly went to help get patients up I knew were within my restirctions to be able to assist. I checked in with the aide who's patient I was getting up who is also a friend and she warned me that this co-worker had already decide which residents I'd be taking care of for her that day. While I was getting supplies together to give a shower this co-woker came up to me and demanded to know 'What are you doing for me today?' and when I pointed out that I was getting a shower and that I wasn't planning on helping C1 this morning because they don't need help in the morning she got angry and pointed out that she was on C3. I aplogized and told her I'd see what needed done on her set when I finished the shower I was about to do. She told me which two people she wanted me to get up for her and started walking away. I pointed out, in a teasing tone, that it would be nice of her to ask me to help her instead of demand it. She told me not to bother coming to help her and when I finished the shower and checked in to see if she was okay she told me not to bother that she was done with me that day. Later she loudly complained in the middle of the dining room in front of patients that no one wants to help one another. When I went to try and push one of her residents to the dining room she told me not to 'because I wouldn't want you to strain yourself' and was just genereally grouchy and mean whenever I was around...for the entire shift.
Today she wouldn't even say hi to me, just glared at me and walked away.
I don't even know what to do. It feels petty and childish to me, but I wasn't asking for much. I went for a friendly somewhat teasing tone and just pointed out something that needed to be said because I'm not the only one who feels she does this to them.